At this age, puppies usually think the sun rises and sets with us. It's a perfect time to take advantage of that and the fact that they are like little sponges right now. The more we use that to our advantage, the easier adolescence will be. Adolescence is the developmental period where your perfect little puppy suddenly forgets what her name is, forgets everything she has learned, and tries to test the boundaries a lot. It usually comes as a shock to people...their puppy seemed so perfect before. Not to worry, all your ground work you have done will pay off in the long run. Just be consistent and follow through with her when she does reach this phase and soon you will have a more mature dog who again thinks the sun rises and sets with you.
It's great for puppies to have other puppy friends. In fact, it's really important for their development. But you also want to make sure that your puppy is really focused on you. Involving yourself with her play, training her, and having fun and pleasant interactions with her will help her to realize you are the bees knees.
So then, even when she is having a good time with her friends...
She still eagerly comes when called. At this point, I've said her name and "come" once. If she had not started moving towards me, I would have gone up to her and wiggled a treat under her nose and lured her back to where I originally called her. I don't want her to learn that it's ok to blow me off.
But, of course, that's not the case with Luna because she's got this down pat.
Every step she comes towards me I am cheering her on and praising her. I have long ago lost my inhibitions when working with the dogs so I tend to have a pretty loud and exciting voice that usually gets all the dogs running towards me. The cheering encourages her to come towards me more quickly but it also lets her know that she's doing the right thing. It's a pretty big deal for a dog to come to you so eagerly when they are having a good time with their friends.
In the beginning, I just wanted her to run fast towards me. But now that she's doing that really well, I can start luring her into a sit when she arrives in front of me (ahhh...much nicer than the dog crashing into me when they come full speed ahead).
When she gets to me, I'm going to feed her one small piece of a tasty treat right after the other. I do this for a couple of reasons. First, I want it to really pay off when she comes. Second, I want her to stick around a bit when she comes to me. What good would it do if she came to me, took the treat and ran off again. On occasion, I'm also going to grab her collar and give her a treat. This will get her use to people reaching down to grab her collar (instead of ducking away when people reach for her). This is really useful in an emergency situation where you need to grab your dog quickly.
Luna braces for what she knows is coming next. Now that she's had a few tasty treats...
Billings just might need to give her a little kiss. A tasty kiss at that.
So that food motivation is fantastic for training but, oh boy, that can spell trouble in other areas. I discourage this behavior by interrupting her and redirecting her to another activity. When she is doing something more appropriate, I praise her and smile and tell her how wonderful she is. I might even give her a treat if she does something fabulous for me like a nice down or something like that. I want it to pay off more to behave nicely. If I interrupt this food searching behavior, it doesn't pay off for her. And trust me when I say this has future counter surfer written all over it. All she needs is a little bit more height. Preventing this now, though, when she still thinks you are the most wonderful person in the whole wide world, is so much easier than trying to fix the problem when she's older and has been practicing the behavior for a while.
Needless to say, Luna is sleeping well here. Plenty of work and play throughout the day. We're all sleeping well.